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Be Aware of Your Fears

Julie Murphy • January 6, 2021
Fears. Who’s got them? My guess is most of us. They come and go over time, sometimes with more intensity and sometimes less. Why? This fear comes from your past relationship with money, which comes from conditions in the families and communities we grew up in. We learned emotional response systems from those we started our lives with and continue to attract those that reinforce those limiting belief systems. We’re more stuck in our daily groves, with the appearance that it is harder and harder to change the more time flies by. But, I’m here to tell you, you can make great things can happen, no matter what age you are, how many failures you’ve had, or how many people are counting against you. I know, because I’ve done it!

All you need is for the real you to show up and to recognize that these disruptive patterns keep persisting in your life. Then, consciously choose to start dissolving them.

We need to realize our financial fears really don’t come from our money. What we do with our money is one way we act out our unprocessed, unfelt, emotions. Remember, Einstein proved that energy is neither created nor destroyed; it just changes form. So, when you have an emotional charge about something, a fear, and you don’t directly address it at that moment in time, the energy either gets stored in your body for a later explosion or exits your energy field some other way.

The level of debt in our world today is the proof in the pudding that we are NOT processing our emotions in real, present time. We are creating debt and huge levels of it. You see this in personal budgets, corporate, non-for-profits, and governmental financial levels — it’s everywhere. It’s as if we act like it just doesn’t exist and it’s just become a way of life. We are in over our heads, and this too will come to a striking halt at some point if we don’t address why it’s being created in the first place. So much of it is fear driven –fear of not having what someone else has, or fear of losing what we’ve built. We are expressing fear of being rejected, and not being accepted by society’s norms, regardless if it’s really important to us or not. We’re caught up with what is outside of us, instead of focusing on what is true for us on the inside. You are in a relationship with money, and like with all good relationships, there needs to be a harmonic balance.

Start to become the observer of your financial life. No judging, just witness what you’ve created. It’s ok if it triggers an emotion, it’s part of the healing process. Just take a look. Take note of when you become fearful. What do you see? Keep looking. It’s ok to cry. It’s ok to angry and punch a pillow…get those emotions up and out so we can heal those financial patterns that we recreate over and over again that don’t support the “you” of today.

Money is energy. To overcome your financial fears once and for all, you have to tactically start to move your money into the directions that really support the new you. Your money needs to fund the intentions of your life, at this season in your life. What I’ve learned through the years is that tuning into you and taking ACTION on the real you, is the best way to work past your fears and solidify a new response system, which gives your new desired reality. It’s the only way to do it. Why? Because along the way you are shifting your energy in the present time, despite the jitters, and that makes it a new you.

I encourage you to become financially fearless!!

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